It seems to be quite the month for change, this month of October where the weather can’t decide if it’s actually fall or some other month not to be determined (we’ve had everything from April to December). Not only did I add braces, I also cut my hair.
This doesn’t sound particularly life changing unless you’ve known me for a number of years. I’ve had waist length hair since grade school.
And then, on an almost spur of the moment before the Brunette’s wedding, an extremely wonderful hairdresser named Olga cut eleven inches of hair off. It was in the back of my mind that I might consider it when I went in for the first trim I’d gotten from her in a long time. Moving half-way across the country from your trusted hairdresser is not something I recommend.
The cut off locks will be donated when I can round up an envelope and get myself to the post office. As certain friends can attest, I’m not very good at mailing packages in a prompt fashion. So now I give you the update and some commentary.
Thoughts on the Process:
1) If you are not the person who is considering donation, it is the extremely rude to approach someone–either friend or total stranger–and suggest to them that they should cut their hair and donate it. Chances are very good that some other impolite (and usually short haired) person has already tried to shove the suggestion down their throat and they’re really not interested in hearing about it for the fourteenth time. If it’s not your hair, it’s not your decision or place to comment. Stop it.
1a) Do not force children to do this against their will. Either the growing out of the hair or the cutting.
2) If you’re going to donate, I suggest that you plan to cut off twelve inches. Locks of Love requires ten inch lengths, so your hairdresser may need to cut off eleven and then another inch off in making it look fabulous. Pantene also accepts hair donations.
3) Find a hairdresser to stick with during this process–changing to someone new may very well mean starting from scratch. I’ve met too many hairdressers who “think they know best.” Olga had been cutting my hair for four years.
4) Think about major events. Is anyone getting married in the next year or two who will a) kill if you cut your hair before it happens or b) will require you to get an up-do? Are you doing anything with your hair involving the word “bleach” or “permanent”? Note: you can do a lot of cool up dos with long hair .
5) Everyone has their reasons for cutting or not cutting their hair. It’s your choice, it’s your hair. I’m of the belief that hair should be kept healthy and shouldn’t be causing you headaches/neck problems.
Many people assume it’s much easier to deal with shorter hair, care for, etc etc. So far–it’s actually been a little harder. I can’t get my hair up into a bun or a french braid easily and the ponytail crimp is a lot worse. I get annoyed when it’s in my face so it’s either down for half the day and then wadded into a ponytail or it’s just up in a ponytail. I’m going to look for some butterfly clips or smaller barrettes but have yet to hit a Claire’s.